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Thoughts..

I watched a story on the Today Show this morning that has been on my mind all day. It was about a young husband and wife who were both diagnosed with aggressive cancer within 9 days of each other. They have an 18 month old daughter. Elisa is combating stage 4 metastic breast cancer and Nathan is fighting stage 3 rectal cancer. Like Really??!! Click here to read their blog. I feel for this family. How can stuff like this really happen? I don't get it sometimes. Yet, they still remain strong and have an unbelievable amount of hope. They don't want people to feel sorry for them. This just brings me back to all the pity I received(and still do) when Cade was born. I have said from the very beginning, please don't feel sorry for me. When Cade was born those first few weeks were by far the hardest. I could not see the gift I had received. I see so clearly now. I love what I have learned from this little guy! Stories like this just make me appreciate everything I have in life that much more. I held my boys extra tight tonight and said an extra prayer for the Bond family...Maybe you can too!

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