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Tired and Thankful

I am the parent of an amazing boy. He is 9. He is smart, funny, and happy. I am the parent of a child with Prader-Willi Syndrome... PWS is a complex developmental disability that results from a defect on the 15 th chromosome. Because of an abnormality in the area of the brain called the hypothalamus, these individuals face challenges in learning, behavior and controlling their appetite. The message of fullness never reaches their brain and they are always hungry. The intensity of their food drive can vary but all require support and understanding if/when they are exposed to food or they attempt to seek food. Food security must be considered and provided in all environments and at all times. While I am first Mom to Cade, just as importantly I am his advocate in every aspect of his life for his rare disorder. I am tired. Remaining humble and thankful for all of Cade's progress is so very hard in the midst of advocating. Some days I feel as I...
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Trust the process

So, today has been mentally taxing on me. From finishing up my Summer classes and final tests, to losing a dear, fellow PWS Mom friend, and then taking Cade to his first swim practice for the Special Olympics. I've shared extreme highs and extreme lows today, but as I unwind tonight I feel compelled to share this with whoever decides to read it.  Some of you may know this about me, but most probably do not. I have always felt a strong attraction to working with those with special needs. It just always felt right and from a young age I remember looking up local jobs and volunteer opportunities..always searching for something to fulfill that desire. I was actually enrolled in college for Family and Consumer Science and was planning to go into Special Education. I had taken the Parapro assessment and actively looking for Para jobs. Then I became pregnant for Cade and life had other plans. Given my role now to Cade, isn't it ironic? OK, so here is an e-mail I dug up from my in...

Hungry.

It has been a loooong time since I've written, but its time. I need an outlet and the world needs awareness. If you are new here or don't know by now my son, Cade, who is now 7 (almost 8) is a fun, loving, genuine boy who happens to have been born with a rare genetic disorder. Prader-Willi Syndrome. See below from www.fpwr.org if you are unaware of exactly what Prader-Willi Syndrome is... The symptoms of Prader-Willi syndrome are due to dysfunction of a portion of the brain called the hypothalamus. The hypothalamus is a small endocrine organ at the base of the brain that plays a crucial role in many bodily functions, including regulating hunger and satiety, body temperature, pain, sleep-wake balance, fluid balance, emotions, and fertility. An unregulated appetite and easy weight gain characterize the later stages of PWS. These features most commonly begin between ages 3 and 8 years old, but are variable in onset and intensity.  Individuals with PWS lack normal hunger and sa...

Prader-Willi Syndrome Teacher Tips

This Friday Cade starts Kindergarten, with an excellent teacher once again...I am hoping for a great year! I am creating this post to have Elizabeth Roof's excellent video tool at my fingertips for his team to view.

Happy 5th Birthday Cade!

I can't believe we are celebrating your 5th birthday today. It seems like just yesterday I was awaiting your arrival. Boy, what a whirlwind it has been since then.  I have watched you go from a tiny, helpless newborn to a boy who already has his mind made up about just anything. You have taught our family so much about being strong and loving endlessly. You bring opportunities that I never imagined possible when I first held you in my arms. Life-long friendships have been made because of you. I will always encourage you, respect you, be your biggest fan, your advocate, and your supporter. I will always hope for a brighter, more accepting tomorrow. But above all, I will always love you for who you are.

WDSU interview at CHOLA

So, I was contacted a couple of weeks ago to do an interview with WDSU News Channel 6 and Children's Hospital. They wanted to do a segment on RSV awareness and Cade's personal story with RSV. The advocate I am made the trip to CHOLA and you can view our segment  HERE! I think it was put together really nice!  RSV was such a tough, trying time in our lives and I am more than thankful to have Cade here and doing so well today!  Check us out! 

The Ugly Truth.

Disclaimer: This blog post is featured on Jennifer Pastiloff's oh so amazing blog that can be found  Here ! COURAGE ,  DEPRESSION ,  GUEST POST THE BALLS OUT TRUTH ABOUT DEPRESSION. AUGUST 13, 2014 By Amy Ferris. This is what i know this morning post coffee pre wine yesterday my friend asked me, did you ever try it? yes, i said, yes, i tried suicide. obviously, this was all around the news of robin williams & his death. yes, i said… i was young, much younger, and so sad, i was so miserable & so unhappy & i felt all alone in the world. i felt like nobody knew what it was like, this damp darkness. everything was pitch black. there was no color anywhere. it was dark & lonely, and the best way i can describe how i felt at that time in my life was like being in the middle of a forest, and it’s eerily dark, and you don’t know which way to turn and so you take baby steps. teeny steps because you don’t know where you are, and you can’...